My DeepSeek Moment: Rethinking Parenting as a Reward Function

 



My DeepSeek Moment: Rethinking Parenting as a Reward Function

Here’s my takeaway from reflecting on DeepSeek and learning systems:
You don’t need to script every step of your child’s academic path—what primary school to attend, which high school to aim for, or even which college to choose.

Instead, just define a simple reward function:

  1. Be resilient

  2. Be curious

  3. Be healthy

That’s it. Set those core values as the guiding parameters.

Then step back and trust the process. Through countless iterations—aka life experiences—your child will fine-tune their own trajectory. Over time, they’ll discover a path that’s not just successful, but deeply fulfilling.

Because just like in machine learning, the best models (and humans) thrive when they’re built to adapt—not follow a hardcoded script.



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